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This Is Where True Happiness Is To Be Found


There are two attitudes to take in life. One type of person takes care to think about the meaning of their existence, they set goals for themselves that, being reached, can make them satisfied with life. The other type of person can't see much sense in life struggles and the only goal they can set for themselves is to survive each day which makes their lives a long chain of troubles and fateful events, for everything in it is determined by luck alone.

Learn from what you are going through

It is natural that we have to struggle in life; whenever something bad happens, keep in mind that your task is to solve the problems and keep hoping for the better. Everything happens to us for a reason. Instead of thinking how good or bad some event is, we must try to learn from it what we can. Those events are lessons and they keep repeating themselves until we learn them. Of course, they are not easy to learn, because in life no professor can tell you how to solve a problem. People like giving advice but there is no teacher who can tell you what to do for getting the best result, which of course does not mean that there is no teacher in your life at all. Everyone who comes into your life teaches something to you or learns something from you...

Complete the tasks life gives you


Don't think your life is full of troubles and problems. Those are not troubles but tasks waiting to be completed. If you complete those tasks with all your might using the abilities and talents you have, you grow. That's how you improve yourself. So just complete your task and move on. If you do your best you should feel satisfied. That deep satisfaction is somehow related to happiness in a simplified manner. Happiness is what everyone wants, right? People are chasing some idealistic life situation that they believe will make them happy, but when they reach what they want their best days are already gone.

Happiness is not what you think

Happiness is not out there but inside you. When you feel relaxed, your mind is quiet, and your soul is filled with harmony and good intentions, that's happiness. It does not matter if you have a fortune or not. You should not expect money to make you feel better if otherwise you are miserable, because your mind is occupied with making comparisons between yourself and others. What if you never realize your dream of wealth? If your happiness depends on money, you are bound to be unhappy forever. You should not reassure yourself by thinking that devoting your time and energy to earning as much money as you can will reward you with happiness some time in the future. Never think of happiness as something that belongs to the future. You should concentrate on this moment alone, because what if you die tomorrow? You should think about the here and now, feeling grateful for having another day to live. Just think about all the reasons you have to be happy! You are healthy, you are beloved, the world around you is beautiful, just have a look at those flowers, just have a walk in the sunshine! Be satisfied with what you have instead of chasing dreams that are never to be realized.

Keep hoping for the best

No, this does not mean that you should resign all your ambitions. You are better off being motivated to do more and be more. But no failure should be followed by unhappiness. Optimism and positive attitude is what can keep us going. Hope is what propels life forward and helps us with however hard life situation we get into. Poverty should not prevent you from noticing the beauty of the world around you and with a soul immensely rich you can help others more than money in itself ever could.

Keep in mind that bad days are followed by good ones

Never give up, because goals that have realistic foundation can be reached if you work hard. What one can think and believe is just what one can achieve. Trust yourself, allow yourself to dream, and believe in the success of your plans. No one is predestined to have an unhappy existence. Bad things might happen to everyone, but they are generally followed by good days just like night is followed by daylight.

Being loved is what makes you the happiest

Don't think of happiness as something that other people can provide. It is natural that you want to be loved, but it is not the other person who makes you happy. The feeling is inside you! You only need someone to feed your happiness, but they do not generate it. It is hard to define, however, who is the one for you. Sometimes the ugliest person can become the most beautiful because the love that you feel changes the way you see. Never try to explain why you love someone for your heart knows these things better than your brain. It sends you the clearest signals when the right person comes along. Sometimes you fall for the wrong one, but that happens for a reason, too. Just look for someone with whom you both can make each other feel loved, important and attractive. Earthly happiness comes from the feeling that you would give or sacrifice everything for that person because you are so deeply in love and whenever you look at each other you know that you are loved with the same intensity and your presence is a source of joy and happiness for the dear one.

Choose the right way to live

So what is to be done in this earthly existence? Just do whatever you must and strive for happiness, but remain humane in the process. Live in a way so that you don't feel any regret if you must die tomorrow. Every new day gives you an opportunity to choose the life that makes you happier. Everything depends on your attitude. And don't take tomorrow's worries on yourself today! Each day has its own worries to cope with. It is more than enough for you to take today's worries on you today. The choice is yours. Also you can choose the way you react in certain situations. Also you can choose the way you want to live. Also you can decide if you want to let people affect your mood. Just live so that you build, not destroy. Let your soul fill with harmony and enjoy life and its beauty, because there is only one existence that you can live through. At least in this form... 



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