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Learning the Art of Unconditional Love (The Most Important Key to Have a Successful Relationship)

Relationships are the most contrasting experiences in our lives meaning that they cause the greatest joy and also the greatest suffering. To have a harmonious relationship we need to learn how to evolve together instead of evolve apart. We need to find a way to cultivate harmony while...

articles ,life battles ,thoughts

Are Your Battles Worth Fighting? The Importance of Choosing Your Battles Carefully

There are things in life you deem important enough to enter fights or battles in order to get them or keep them no matter what it costs you. But many of the battles of your life are such that you enter without realizing what you are doing and...

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If Your Love Is Real, Pain Is Also Part of It (Paulo Coelho)

“The strongest love is the love that can demonstrate its fragility. Anyway, if my love is real (and not just a way of distracting myself, deceiving myself, and passing the time, that never seems to pass in this city), freedom will conquer jealousy and any pain it causes...

articles ,vulnerability ,weakness

What Does It Really Mean to Be Vulnerable? Vulnerability vs. Weakness

I think we need to talk about the difference between vulnerability and weakness, because too often you meet people who conflate the two. They think that vulnerability is weakness by definition. If you look up the definition of the two, you'll find that vulnerable means susceptible to physical...

Boyhood ,life ,life lesson ,movie ,past ,reviews ,time

What Life Lesson the Movie Boyhood Can Teach Us?

“Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.” (Boyhood) In this article I want us to take a movie and review it not in terms of how great the movie is, but look at it in terms of what life lessons we can get from that movie....

articles ,date ,first

Why Is It a Good Idea to Divide Your First Date in Three Compartments?

What is the mistake that creates every awkward date that you ever go on? When people go on a date, they create this big plan for what they will going to do with someone that is absolutely impossible to escape from. For example, a dinner is just an...

articles ,happiness ,life ,perfectionism ,pretense ,self-deception ,social media. reality ,truth ,virtuality

Do You Live the Perfect Life Without Ever Being Happy?

Many people live with two faces, one is put up to show the world how happy they are and the other is the real one hidden and rarely acknowledged, preserved for private moments. Your real life is far from perfect but you like painting a colorful, happy existence...

love ,men ,Milan Kundera ,quotes ,The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera

Two Categories of Men Who Pursue a Multitude of Women (Milan Kundera)

“Men who pursue a multitude of women fit neatly into two categories. Some seek their own subjective and unchanging dream of a woman in all women. Others are prompted by a desire to possess the endless variety of the objective female world. The obsession of the former...

articles ,depth ,emotion ,feeling ,intensity ,intimacy ,love ,relationship ,soul ,soul mate ,thinking ,thoughts ,woman

If You Are a Woman of Depth and Feeling

Do you feel lost sometimes? If you are a woman of depth and feeling, you probably have to face the fact that you are different from most of the people around you. You hate small talk because you want to go deep every time you have a conversation....

idealization ,letting go ,playing games ,self-delusion ,thoughts ,unrequited love

When It Is Time to Move On

Sometimes we are so much in love with an idealized image of someone that we cannot see the real person at all. We are very slow to realize that he is playing with us, feeding our hopes but realizing nothing of our expectations. It is pretty tough to...

articles ,change ,decision ,fear ,happiness ,life situation ,signs

Afraid to Change Your Life? This Is Why You Are Stuck In Bad Situations

Life is a paradox. It is too long for us to notice how short it is. People are stuck in bad relationships or situations, waiting for the right moment to move on until they realize 5 or 10 or 20 years has flown away, or maybe their whole...

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Are You One of Your Beloved? Fighting off Self-Hate

Just think of the persons you love and ask yourself if you are one of them. Seriously. Are you important for yourself? Do you devote enough time to yourself? Do you respect yourself? Can you accept your decisions, your past and present, your whole self altogether? Are you...

change ,fate ,happiness ,thoughts

Things Are Not Always What They Look Like

Just because something bad happened, you should not think that you lost everything you value. Sometimes changes bring you unexpected good, even if they don't look encouraging at the beginning. Of course you wanted things to go in a certain way and they didn't but that doesn't mean...

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Real Love Has Nothing to Do With All That (Paulo Coelho)

“She had grown a lot while waiting for this moment. She had finally discovered that real love has nothing to do with what she imagined, that is, with a chain of events provoked by the energy engendered by love – courtship, engagement, marriage, children, waiting, cooking, the amusement...

Arthur Golden ,Memoirs of a Geisha by Arthur Golden ,quotes

What If I Never Really... (Arthur Golden)

“From this experience, I understood the danger of focusing only on what isn't there. What if I came to the end of my life and realized that I'd spent every day watching for a man who would never come to me? What an unbearable sorrow it would be,...

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This Is Where True Happiness Is To Be Found

There are two attitudes to take in life. One type of person takes care to think about the meaning of their existence, they set goals for themselves that, being reached, can make them satisfied with life. The other type of person can't see much sense in life struggles...