Do you feel
lost sometimes? If you are a woman of depth and feeling, you probably have to
face the fact that you are different from most of the people around you. You
hate small talk because you want to go deep every time you have a conversation.
You ask questions that never occurred to other people, calling their attention
to things that they perhaps chose not to see because they are afraid of them.
You always tell the truth, even if the person concerned is not happy to hear
it. This quality of yours is responsible for driving men away from you. Men
often choose not to have anything to do with you because you know what you
want, show your feelings and tell them what you need.
You meet very
few men of the same depth and feeling that you have which results in long years
of single life. You fall in love very rarely. The men you meet don't want such
depth as yours in their relationships, they just want some amusement, they
reject responsibilities. That's why you choose not to waste your time on them. Relationships
that lack depth and long conversations make you unhappy. Men who refuse to open
up make you unhappy. You want to dive into his soul, his thoughts, his past,
his personality. You want to know more about him, you want to understand him,
wishing he could understand you. You want to connect to him on a deeper level,
you want intimacy. If you can't find a man who is your match you rather stay
single. Being single is better for you than toiling along in a bad
relationship.
Enjoying
yourself is not enough for you. You want more. You want meaning. If you find a
man who seems the one that can make you happy, you are not afraid to take steps
toward him. You do everything in your power to please him. Yet, you are shocked
to see he is retreating, he is frightened, he does not want what you have to
offer. A lot of men are afraid of women who show their feelings, tell their
thoughts and have intense emotions. Love is not a game for you. You put your
whole self in the relationship and expect the man to do the same. You do this
despite the fact that you see his faults and flaws very clearly. You understand
his struggles, you perceive what is going on inside his soul. You find it
natural that you have that skill. Men, however, find it weird. Men are not used
to women who are like that. Men are afraid of women who are like that. He is
afraid that you want his soul.
He knows
you take him seriously. He knows you will never play with his feelings. He does
not really understand who and what you are, because he never met women of that
sort. He thinks you have ideas and insights almost like men do. But the
strangest of all is your capacity of having those intense emotions that go so
deep, invading heart and body. He knows you want real attachment and intimacy.
You seek a soul mate in him. You can't enjoy a relationship without deep
sentiments, your soul is like burning fire. You are a bit too eager and seeing
his hesitation you feel hurt, turned down, rejected. You realize he does not
know what he wants and that makes you think he does not want you at all. You
surmise you are not important to him. This makes you feel bad for you take it
as an offense. You feel hurt because you can't be happy with a cold man who is
emotionally unavailable. You don’t want a man who built a wall around his heart
for protection. You need to feel his love and attachment without which you find
the relationship is mere vegetation. Men, however, at least most of them, feel
this is something too serious. Something that implies duty and responsibility.
Not all of them is capable of understanding your soul so you must be patient
when seeking the man who is your match. He is a thoughtful being with just as
deep feelings as you have. He needs you just as much as you need him. Meeting a
woman like you will be a great surprise for him — it might be that he already
decided women are all shallow. You'll be a surprise to him and he'll be a surprise
to you. Just wait for your time, dear.
